“TO CHANGE ONE’S LIFE: START IMMEDIATELY,DO IT FLAMBOYANTLY; NO EXCEPTIONS.” WILLIAM JAMES
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Don't ever settle for less than the best
They say you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. Well, I kissed a lot of frogs ... but I definitely found my prince.
Ladies ... and I'm talking to the younger ones mostly. Please do NOT settle. If he doesn't treat you right, and I mean pretty much all the time ... kick him to the curb! If he's a lazy sod who doesn't lift a finger to help, isn't emotionally supportive and selfish ... kick him to the curb. Sooner than later. You deserve better than that.
I have spoken to so many women lately whose "other halves" are lazy, useless, unsupportive and downright abusive. And you don't need that. My mother's generation and before her put up with abuse, neglect, etc. because they didn't have much option. They grew up, got married, had kids, had grandkids and died. They didn't work outside the house. They didn't make their own money. They didn't have much say in matters.
Today's women, however, are different. We're strong, independant, capable. We don't need a man. We can have several. Maybe not at one time ....
Gentlemen ... please, please, please ... don't take your ladies for granted. Appreciate them, respect them, don't let them down.